Fat experiences

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When I was very young I knew I liked Fat. I happened to be very skinny and could never gain weight....even when I was in Hugh school. But the crazy thing is I liked fat on girls/women and I liked more and more of it as I got older.

Just curious how many girls & guy's were really skinny themselves and liked Fat and heavier guy's or girls?

It seems there are a bunch of really skinny or thin women on this site and others that are feeders. But also I was curious if this is a pattern that many of us were skinny and very thin when we were younger but loved the opposite in our mate.

I was actually skinny like this unitl I was 23 or 24 yrs. old....then in a blink I became bulky...and then many years later bulkier with a big gut. So my body totally changed but I don't think it was me manifesting weight gain on myself subconsciously until the last 4-5 years when I was intentionally gaining (which may be a product of such sites).
10 years

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I think many male FAs who were thin until they hit a certain age fit the category. My tastes in women have gotten larger along with my own waistline smiley Never thought I'd find 300-pound women with big bellies so sexy. Don't think I could go back now smiley
10 years

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I fit in this category as well. I was a skinny boy when I was younger, and lacked some self-confidence because of this. I wanted to be bigger, but never really tried to gain weight on purpose, except some lousy attempts when I was single and had no BBW in my life.

Not sure if my FA preferences developed as a kind of envying all those people that were lusciously fat while I was skin and bones. I doubt it though, because I had this fascination for all things fat already when I was still a young kid, and I doubt I was already self-conscious about being skinny at that age.
It's probably rather the other way around: my FA preferences causing me to be more self-conscious about being skinny and wanting to be bigger.
10 years

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I was thin and athletic my whole life, always identified as a FA and a feeder... It wasn't until well into my marriage that I unintentionally put on 30-50 lbs. Never thinking of myself as "the fat one," I thought (in quite a reactionary way), "I'm going to have to lose this." Until my wife intervened and said, "I think you should gain MORE."

Now she's my feeder, and I have put on over 150 lbs since that day. smiley
10 years

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ahots:
IThat being said, I can ONLY orgasm thinking of very fat men, or being with a very fat man, and I've known fat has made me feel this way from a very young age. I think part of it is the social taboo and the contrast between me and a partner. There is literally nothing else that will turn me on other than a fat partner or a partner gaining weight. I've tried to change it, but after talking to a few psychiatrists, I've realized I need to love and accept it-fetishes don't go away! If it's legal and safe you just gotta incorporate it into your life with consent and balance.


I am exactly the same way. I can only get turned on thinking about fat women and/or getting fat myself. I have been fascinated with fat and weight gain ever since I was young and it wasn't until 25 years ago that I decided to let myself go, eat whatever I wanted and let my weight increase naturally. I found I loved growing fat and have to accept the fact that this is how I am wired. I enjoy living my life now as an FA, gainer and feedee and would not have it any other way.
10 years

Curious to know if others fit into this category

ahots:
IThat being said, I can ONLY orgasm thinking of very fat men, or being with a very fat man, and I've known fat has made me feel this way from a very young age. I think part of it is the social taboo and the contrast between me and a partner. There is literally nothing else that will turn me on other than a fat partner or a partner gaining weight. I've tried to change it, but after talking to a few psychiatrists, I've realized I need to love and accept it-fetishes don't go away! If it's legal and safe you just gotta incorporate it into your life with consent and balance.

BigFA:
I am exactly the same way. I can only get turned on thinking about fat women and/or getting fat myself. I have been fascinated with fat and weight gain ever since I was young and it wasn't until 25 years ago that I decided to let myself go, eat whatever I wanted and let my weight increase naturally. I found I loved growing fat and have to accept the fact that this is how I am wired. I enjoy living my life now as an FA, gainer and feedee and would not have it any other way.


Growing fatter is the most amazing feeling ever!
10 years